Yearly Archives: 2020


How To Coach Adaptive Athletes 2

  For those of us in the Jiu Jitsu community, we have all by now seen that many layers which we have fallen in love with, one way or another.  We all have different sizes, backgrounds, lifestyles, and genders just to name a few.  There is also a group within […]


3 Drills To Re-calibrate for Mental Wellness

  In general, athletes, especially jiu jitsu players, are familiar with drilling technique. In the current pandemic situation, we are required to find a different form of drilling.  That means, scaling back or changing the format of physical training while staying home. For some, it’s a difficult transition; for others, […]


How a Woman Who Qualifies for AARP Fell in Love with BJJ 3

He drags me off balance. Suddenly, I’m flat on my back with him on top of me. But instead of panicking, I cross my wrists, sink my hands deep into his collar, and twist. My knuckles press the sides of his neck. For a few seconds he tries to fight, […]


Living the BJJ Van Lifestyle 2

We all have those “What if?” moments in our lives. These moments can impact our lives in ways we cannot even possibly fathom. They can even be as small as changing to a new fabric softener, a different restaurant, or taking a different way home. They can be major changes […]


Benefits For Upper Belts At Girls in Gis Events

I’ve been going to Girls in Gis for ages now, maybe seven years?  I’ve mostly been a volunteer/ambassador as of late, spending less time on the mats.  I greatly enjoy helping put on these events, but I wanted to remember what it was like to be simply a participant.  So […]


The Privilege of Training 1

This global pandemic has left me missing several aspects of my daily life, one of the most prominent among them being jiu-jitsu. Something that has become such a large part of my weekly routine, has left a big hole in the wake of its absence. Jiu-jitsu is not only one […]


We Can Do It! 2

  It’s been ten years since I’ve started Jiu-Jitsu and I was just a blue belt up until a few weeks ago. It’s hard to admit that without a little bit of shame or embarrassment. But I know that everyone’s journey in this sport is different. Everyone has their reasons […]


PANDEMIC of COMPASSION

We like to think we’re in control. We schedule. We work. We workout. We do the things. Sudden events beyond our control show us that we are not always in the “driver’s seat” even when we are. In 2004, I was in a car accident that shattered my right ankle, […]